Respect and boundaries

Treat everyone you meet through Lavender with respect. No harassment, threats, stalking, coercion, discrimination, hate, or unwanted sexual or romantic behaviour. Respect people's boundaries, and their choice to leave at any time.

Meeting up safely

Meet in a public place, consider telling someone where you're going, and arrange your own way home. Leave if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

In an emergency

Lavender is not an emergency service. For immediate danger in the UK, call 999 or 112.

Reporting a concern

Reports are reviewed by Lavender. We don't monitor activity around the clock and can't guarantee a response time.